What label do you prefer?  What name works for you?  How do you like to be described?  I’m just curious cuz I’ve had this discussion with many friends.  I’ve heard every answer and every thought.  I wanna know yours.  I wanna know how you like to be thought of by your friends, family and co-workers.

I think there are others to work with… baby, boo, sugar baby, mistress and baby girl to name a few.  It depends on where you are working from.  I found some countries use different words than others.  I think it’s about language and culture.

I’m OK with all of them.  I think content and intent are very important.  What’s behind the label is important.  But if I had to choose one… I wouldn’t.  I always ask my friends what works for them and work accordingly.  No matter what, it’s about what she wants and needs.  Respect her wishes!